Heat a little oil in a heavy based pan, add the pork mince and brown all over.
Make a well in the middle of your pan, add the garlic, ginger and 1 tablesp. dried chilli flakes, cook for 2 minutes. Season with a little sea salt. Add the soy sauce and oyster sauce. Mix to coat the pork and cook until it gets sticky. Turn off the heat and garnish with sliced scallions, some more chilli flakes and grated lime zest.
To make the slaw, grate the carrot and apple into a bowl, using a box grater or by chopping with a knife. Slice the cabbage thinly and add to the bowl.
To make the dressing, place the peanut butter, mustard, vinegar and oil to a jar, season with salt and shake. Dress the veg in this and finish with the toasted peanuts.
Serve the pork mince with the coleslaw and some washed baby gem or iceberg lettuce cups